Moving & What We Hold Onto

catsWe’re in the midst of a move. It’s not far, but it’s fairly major. It’s maybe the most physically and mentally exhausting move I’ve endured so far, even though it’s literally just a few blocks.

I’m looking forward to the chance to purge and rearrange thoughtfully, which is admittedly counter to my accumulative nature. I get particularly attached to furniture and vintage glassware. I’m still in love with Craigslist scores from five years ago, and the thought of reselling some of those things makes me unreasonably sad. I’m also at an age where I’m starting to accumulate things at family auctions, things I couldn’t ever sell to someone who didn’t have an emotional connection to my family.

I don’t like that about myself — that I get so attached to objects. But there’s something about being able to look around and remember the yard sale in a town I don’t live in anymore where I got a particular end table or fruit crate. It’s just stuff, I can hear my mom say. And I know I don’t need it. I know I can live without it. But it feels like home in a way that I don’t want to let go of.

That said, I am looking forward to an interior refresh…and new appliances and central air and a second bedroom and dedicated office and music space. I may document and share a little bit of the process here over the next few weeks and months as we settle in.


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  1. I went through a fire in 2012 that wiped out all my stuff, so I became far less attached to physical objects. There were a few select things I missed, but overall the great purge was a useful event.

    Jason and I have been on a mission to reduce clutter in all areas of or lives, but it’s hard! We combined all of our stuff in Knoxville and then downsized when moving to Philly.

    My mother, on the other hand, is quite the accumulator and it was a nightmare sorting through my parents belongings after my dad passed. We had literally reached the one box of things to hang on the wall milestone and now my basement is full of their stuff!

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